Body Image Issues in the news

While I appreciate a lot of the points made in this article, I’m glad it’s author takes the time to acknowledge the over simplification of her statements.

Next time you are in a store that sells magazines, look at the number of magazines devoted to women’s fashion and beauty. Women are being bombarded with these messages everywhere they look and they far outnumber the messages that men receive throughout the day to “look good, thin, and young.”

And to everyone with facebook out there, THIS IS AWESOME!

since going gender-neutral on Facebook I have very few diet ads.

some BIC updates!

first of all, happy thanksgiving to everyone!

hope everyone had a great break!

just to let everyone know, we will have a meeting this Wednesday (the 3rd) at 9:30 am in the Health Center Conference Room. See you there!

 

also this wednesday at 4pm in the Counseling Center Lobby will be our weekly Body Image and Eating Issues Support group!

 

THere will be a special program NEXT wednesday (the 10th) at 4pm (location; TBD) with a woman from Renfrew to discuss issues that may occur over the holidays for students struggling with eatting and body image issues. More information to be provided!

BIC in the BI-CO

We’re in the Bi-Co TWICE in one issue!

 

First, where the Body Image Council is profiled : )

and Second, where there is a write up about Kathleen’s visit!

 

And while I’m plugging the Bi-Co, there are alot of really great events this month that the Haverford Women’s Center is sponsoring, including:

Events still to occur include the Orgasmic Birth film screening on Wednesday, November 12 in the Women’s Center at 8:00 p.m.; the domestic violence art show “A View Through My Window” from 4:00 p.m. November 18 through November 20 in Founders Great Hall; and SpeakOut, November 20 at 9:00 p.m. in the Founders Common Room.

Auditions!

Just to let everyone know, auditions for this year’s performance of the Vagina Monologues will be THIS Wednesday night (11/12) from 6:45 to 11:30 pm.

Please signup for an audition slot in the Campus Center.

See you Wednesday night!

Article about Men, Self Image, and “Beautiful” women in Magazines

An article called, ” Steamy mags bad for men’s body image, too: Guys who check out sexy models feel like they don’t measure up, study says” was posted yesterday on MSNBC.com

I think it is important to talk about men’s body image, but I am also deeply distrubed the masoginistic and heteronormativity of this article and the survey’s it uses to back up.

Read the article for your self, but basically it talks about men who look at magazines like Maxim and the like, have lowered self image and heightened anxiety after looking at images of “beauitful” women. The sruvey tries is argued to show that men feel less attractive when they look at women they deemed extremely extracitve.

I think this whole article and the surveys included reek of a web of serious issues and assumptions. First of all, it makes me feel like they are blaming women for their self image. It also places women as an object of sexual desire, entangling this male self image with based on the fact that there is this “ideally sexualized” woman, which causes them to feel bad about themselves because they dont think “a girl like her” would have sex with them. Because OBVIOUSLY the women in the magazine are straight, or into men, or available for sleeping with them, like it’s their sole duty. like the only thing holding the men back from the sex they COULD have with these women is their own appearance (ie of COURSE these women want to have sex with them…)As if the women are supposed to be in a men’s magazine anyway? And dont just lump all men in the same category, make sure the call it “straight men’s magazines”. Call your target audience.

 

I know that this probably is coming out very jumbled, but take a look. And hopefully you will feel enraged too.

 

Basically, thanks for all of the assumptions in your survey, and for blaming women for men’s lowered self image.

thank you!

thank you so much to everyone who came to Kathleen’s talk tonight in Thomas Great Hall! It was such a great talk and wonderful to see so many people there!

Don’t forget coffee hour tomorrow, co-sponsored by Active Minds and Body Image Council!